Realizing absolute reality

Step 1. Know that it exists

Step 2. act knowing that...i.e put that into practice

its like solving an equation, already knowing the value of x.where what gives you the value of x finally is the realization during the experience of solving the equation.then you get to 'experience' x and not just know x.once you realize x, you substitute it into every equation, and it always gives you the right answer :)
you have to live in the 'relative world' in constant awareness of the absolute 'x' and see the hand of x in everything in order to realize x.