Distinguishing between absolute and relative

Our life is created by us, and is like a building, built from bricks and stones. We are the architects of our lives. This creation,at any point of time, is the summation of all the decisions that we have made.When, at any point of time we make a decision, it has an impact on all future decisions, and if we make a mistake in distinguishing between absolute and relative conditions, at any stage, it puts us in a position of further inability to distinguish the two in the future. The further you move away from the absolute the more difficult it becomes to perceive it.

Once you are deep in the grip of maya, it makes no difference whatsoever which relative you base your decision on, for all lead you equally further from the truth.

Alignment with the absolute is the key to controlling your own destiny.For those in the grip of maya, any decision of theirs will have the same outcome (which is governed by others) so even if they make the right decision, it will have little impact on their destiny.

Awareness

Be aware of
what has happened
what is happening
what is likely to happen

Be aware of science
of self-realized individuals
of different ways of expressing the same thing

Of people
their beliefs,
their values,
what is important to them

Maintain awareness by
reading
listening
watching
observing
meditating
knowing who needs you and when

Absolute Reality (contd)

"if goals are defined in an absolute manner and it is physically impossible to achieve them as all the parameters have been clearly defined and they are in contradiction to each other or to fundamental laws then they are absolutely impossible."

to prevent this sort of contradiction and to know absolute reality, AWARENESS is the key.

Before you attempt to answer a question it is recommended to read all the instructions ..similarly, before you set limitations for yourself, it is best to know the absolute restrictions and they shall be the only restrictions or limitations. Nothing else is impossible.

Alignment with Absolute reality

For those of us who are not aligned with absolute reality, our lives are haphazard. Every day, every decision is hard because it is a conflict of values,evaluations and consequences.
Most decisions are made by evaluating the consequences and are not governed by a uniform set of values.Since every person subscribes to several sets of values (many of which are conflicting) any one of these values (at any given point of time) is used to justify rather than to make decisions.Decisions are still made by evaluating consequences.

for an example of different values read
http://www.religioustolerance.org/abs_true3.htm

Alignment with absolute reality implies one universal standard and measuring all other values based on their alignment with that standard, and making decisions based on that standard regardless of other values or consequences.

The path leading to alignment will not be easy, but once aligned, the universe will base its decisions on you, and not vice versa.

create the impossible..reality v/s perception

the difference between success and failure is often due to inability to distinguish between absolute reality and perceived reality.

if goals are defined in an absolute manner and it is physically impossible to achieve them as all the parameters have been clearly defined and they are in contradiction to each other or to fundamental laws (these fundamental laws are not to be confused with man-made (f)laws.they actually refer to the most fundamental absolute truth,as realized) then they are absolutely impossible.

but if the goals are defined in a relative/subjective manner without inherent contradictions, they can be achieved (yes even what seems impossible, even something that you cannot even visualize at that point of time)